{"id":58,"date":"2008-07-24T20:13:04","date_gmt":"2008-07-25T03:13:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/?p=58"},"modified":"2008-07-24T20:13:04","modified_gmt":"2008-07-25T03:13:04","slug":"ruan-melissa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/?p=58","title":{"rendered":"Ruan &#038; Melissa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The story started in 2006, during a mission trip I took to South Africa.\u00c2\u00a0 Melissa was part of our team, and that&#8217;s where she met Ruan, a South African friend of mine.\u00c2\u00a0 He was quite smitten with her, and once she returned to the US, he tried sending subtle messages of interested.\u00c2\u00a0 They were a bit too subtle, though, and she was confused about who liked her.\u00c2\u00a0 She thought it was another guy, and did not reciprocate the feelings.\u00c2\u00a0 However, she finally learned the truth about her suitor, and their trans-continental romance began.<\/p>\n<p>There are so many cool touches to this wedding; like little bits of South Africa culture mixed with American.\u00c2\u00a0 The park they held the wedding in was where Melissa had grown up, and she had many fond memories of a lot of the places we took photos.\u00c2\u00a0 My favorite part was that they didn&#8217;t feel limited by anybody&#8217;s idea of what a wedding should be: they created their own traditions from the ground up, and it was beautiful.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-026.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-026.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-052.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-052.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-093.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-093.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-117.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-117.jpg\" \/><br \/>\nIf you want to get to her, you&#8217;ve got to go through her brother and her dad.<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-121.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-121.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-127.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-127.jpg\" \/><br \/>\nThis wedding (and the new couple&#8217;s last name) is sponsored by the letter &#8220;P&#8221;<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-132.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-132.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-135.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-135.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-138.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-138.jpg\" \/><br \/>\nRuan&#8217;s family came all the way from South Africa to be there.<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-141.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-141.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-181.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-181.jpg\" \/><br \/>\nProteas are the South African national flower.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-205.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-205.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-229.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-229.jpg\" \/><br \/>\nA Scripture reading &#8211; in Afrikaans &#8211; from Ruan&#8217;s brother.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-233.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-233.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-242.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-242.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-246.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-246.jpg\" \/><br \/>\nAustin approved of the kiss.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-270.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-270.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-282.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-282.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-293.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-293.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-322.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-322.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Melissa had her photos taken here when she graduated from high school&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-335.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-335.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n&#8230;she learned to drive here&#8230;.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-352.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-352.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n&#8230;and now all those places are memorable in a totally different way.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-361.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-361.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-367.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-367.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-371.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-371.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-381.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-381.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-393.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-393.jpg\" \/><br \/>\nGo Jill!!!<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-397.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-397.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-409.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-409.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-411.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-411.jpg\" \/><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-427.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-427.jpg\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/uploads\/2008\/07\/ruan-melissa-420.jpg\" alt=\"ruan-melissa-420.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ruan &amp; Melissa, I can&#8217;t believe you&#8217;re moving to South Africa this Friday!\u00c2\u00a0 I wish I could have had more time to spend with the two of you as a couple&#8230; so we&#8217;ll have to make it a point to meet up for some boerwors next time we&#8217;re in South Africa.\u00c2\u00a0 You are both such amazing people, and I am dying to see where God takes you in the years ahead!\u00c2\u00a0 Blessings!<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/pictage.com\/509595\" title=\"Order prints on Pictage.com\" target=\"_blank\">Order prints of Ruan &amp; Melissa&#8217;s wedding here.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The story started in 2006, during a mission trip I took to South Africa.\u00c2\u00a0 Melissa was part of our team, and that&#8217;s where she met Ruan, a South African friend of mine.\u00c2\u00a0 He was quite smitten with her, and once she returned to the US, he tried sending subtle messages of interested.\u00c2\u00a0 They were a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-weddings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=58"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=58"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=58"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mattfloreen.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=58"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}